happybitch44
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I don’t think anyone will ever know unless I told them lol but I do talk a lot about how beautiful or stunning an animal is but I don’t think that’s uncommon especially for women lol
I sometimes wish it was easier. I know it's best to be safe but it would be great to find others more easily.People who are into this have a hard enough time picking out the signs of others so I highly doubt the average person is thinking about it
Was that friend a woman?I had a friend who was sure I was zoo but I always denied it, I don't need that drama. As long as you still date people I feel like it throws other people off.
Do I ever worry people will pick up on my attraction to animals? Yeah, sometimes, especially early on. I used to get paranoid that my enthusiasm for dogs talking about them, staring a little too long at their strength or grace might tip someone off. Like you said, your eyes go places others’ don’t, and I’ve caught myself lingering on a dog’s build or movements in a way that’s more than just “aw, cute pup.” I’d wonder if friends noticed how much I light up around my boys, or if they’d catch some vibe I wasn’t hiding well. It’s that mix of loving them so deeply figuratively and literally that can feel like a neon sign if you’re not careful.First sorry if this the wrong board, I'm not super familiar with this forum.
Maybe it's influenced by my naturally high anxiety and me projecting, but I worry that people will pick up that I am attracted to animals, probably because I look at them different than they do figuratively and literally.
My eyes might go places most people's eyes don't, or they notice I might seem to really like an animal, maybe too much, even if there is nothing sexual going on. Or maybe because I have a strong general interest in animals and like to learn a lot about them and their behaviors.
Do you guys ever worry about this?
YesWas that friend a woman?
No, if they found it isn't the endFirst sorry if this the wrong board, I'm not super familiar with this forum.
Maybe it's influenced by my naturally high anxiety and me projecting, but I worry that people will pick up that I am attracted to animals, probably because I look at them different than they do figuratively and literally.
My eyes might go places most people's eyes don't, or they notice I might seem to really like an animal, maybe too much, even if there is nothing sexual going on. Or maybe because I have a strong general interest in animals and like to learn a lot about them and their behaviors.
Do you guys ever worry about this?
...over the years I realised that actually I am not that important or noticeable. In a good way, that is...
I do know what you mean. I have that fear. Even if I never do anything that society thinks is bad, or has decided is illegal.I'd rather people not have the suspicion in the first place you know what I mean? They may never accuse you or directly do anything about it, and if they do I can deny liking them, but they might be thinking it and get a bad impression of me. They might be thinking oh that guy is kind of weird, I don't trust him around animals, let's avoid him etc.