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Animallover

Animallover

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As an owner that has talked to a few people here and there and when I go off to telegram or some other chat program One of the biggest things that you could do to irritate the hell out of me and will cause me to quit talking to you is to start answering everything and YEP, YAY, OKAY or just one word to reply back that's it then my time with you is done.

If you can't ask me how my day is if you don't want to talk about anything else, you don't want to talk about hobbies or anything like that then I'm not going to talk to you, will lose my interest very quickly.
On the other hand if you want to tell me every turn that you made to go to the nearest Walmart and every person that you ever met there and give me intimate details about everything and keep it up for 3 hours on Walmart trip I'm also not going to talk to you because I honestly do not care that much.
There needs to be a balance of chatting back and forth and if not I can guarantee you that you most likely will run the other person off.
 
akirazoo said:
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Too soon? Sorry…

Maybe I’ll actually respond to your rant now lol
Honestly mate there’s so many people here just to wank off and then log off I really wouldn’t take it to heart if I was you, I’ve had probably 20 people message me so far, find out my dogs are neutered and then stop messaging entirely. The key I think is to just go in hoping for the best from someone but expect the worst so your not disappointed over and over again.
 
It's hard to get a decent conversation on here, but I think it just comes with the territory. A lot of folks only get on when they're horny, or just don't want to reveal much about themselves, which is understand. I've only ever met someone in person once on beastforum, but that was a decade ago :/
 
Take it with a grain of salt. Tons of fetishist, folks looking for someone else's animal to fuck, wankers, and attention seekers here. That being said I've met some quality folks here as well.
 
Animallover said:
As an owner that has talked to a few people here and there and when I go off to telegram or some other chat program One of the biggest things that you could do to irritate the hell out of me and will cause me to quit talking to you is to start answering everything and YEP, YAY, OKAY or just one word to reply back that's it then my time with you is done.

If you can't ask me how my day is if you don't want to talk about anything else, you don't want to talk about hobbies or anything like that then I'm not going to talk to you, will lose my interest very quickly.
On the other hand if you want to tell me every turn that you made to go to the nearest Walmart and every person that you ever met there and give me intimate details about everything and keep it up for 3 hours on Walmart trip I'm also not going to talk to you because I honestly do not care that much.
There needs to be a balance of chatting back and forth and if not I can guarantee you that you most likely will run the other person off.
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Try being honest with the people just like you're being in this post. if we were chatting and you broke some things down for me.
So I knew a little bit more about what you're looking for? if you were to have hit me with all these things in a conversation with you, I would've been willing to try and make my response is a little bit more detailed, and be sure to ask you some normal things like
How your days went and stuff, tell you about how mine went. Probably start off with asking you what you would like to talk about.
And Not make a whole narration of what I did at the store, or all about my errands. Let a person know these things when you're talking to them, if they fall into those categories of what makes you step away from the interaction. If someone's not willing to adapt themselves to those simple preferences, then they're not worth talking to
 
erphy said:
Take it with a grain of salt. Tons of fetishist, folks looking for someone else's animal to fuck, wankers, and attention seekers here. That being said I've met some quality folks here as well.
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Indeed. I think I met at least one here a couple of years ago.

Depending which person that only logs in hoping for a sex story, sometimes you have to check their profile. I usually ignore the no profile pic users or the ones that spend their entire time in the personals section.
 
Animallover said:
As an owner that has talked to a few people here and there and when I go off to telegram or some other chat program One of the biggest things that you could do to irritate the hell out of me and will cause me to quit talking to you is to start answering everything and YEP, YAY, OKAY or just one word to reply back that's it then my time with you is done.
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We are all attention seekers. It can be hard to find a balance in a relationship. I've never made good friends actively seeking for them. It was always quite random matches. I guess you have you to be very patient and keep trying without insistance.
 
Flµff said:
We are all attention seekers. It can be hard to find a balance in a relationship. I've never made good friends actively seeking for them. It was always quite random matches. I guess you have you to be very patient and keep trying without insistance.
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Yea, trying too hard at trying to make a connection tends to have the opposite effect. And true by nature of humans being social beings, we are always looking for some kind of attention even if it is subconscious. What differs is the drivers, motivation, and expectations with some acting selfishly. I believe this is what the OP is talking about. Self-serving attention seekers with nary a care about the feelings of the person they are engaging with.
 
Oh saaaaame. Unfortunately most people who message me here are like that. Starts with a hello, some small talk and then poof they are gone. It's kinda like getting blueballed lmao.
Honestly I crave interesting and meaningful conversations but alas one can only hope.
 
Kanerudo said:
Oh saaaaame. Unfortunately most people who message me here are like that. Starts with a hello, some small talk and then poof they are gone. It's kinda like getting blueballed lmao.
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Disappearances that sounds like miracles from the communication technology of the 21st century. I saw them too !
 
akirazoo said:
Too soon? Sorry…

Maybe I’ll actually respond to your rant now lol
Honestly mate there’s so many people here just to wank off and then log off I really wouldn’t take it to heart if I was you, I’ve had probably 20 people message me so far, find out my dogs are neutered and then stop messaging entirely. The key I think is to just go in hoping for the best from someone but expect the worst so your not disappointed over and over again.
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This is really good advise, to hope for the best but expect the worst! It has helped me a lot.
I'm always up for the conversations, but if they end up being one-sided, talks only about how they want to fuck, or disappearence after the first post... Then so be it, no hard feelings. Most of my chats are like that. Luckily there has been few very good conversations, going on for several pages!
 
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