Change in behaviour in male dogs

[Tom121]

If you get a puppy and you raise him mostly alone then the puppy sees you as a leader of the pack or "alpha" but when he grows up and matures then you want him to mount you, so you act submissive. Does that change the perspective on how does the dog see you? Will he start to be more dominat towards you and demand sex when he gets horny? Are you his bich only during the fun time or all the time? What if he gets horny in public can you turn him down?

 

[pes]

The alpha theory is flawed and in fact was disproved by the person who came up with it.
The partnership between you and your dog can be much more equal.
He wants sex, you do not, so you refuse and vice versa.
Most animals will come up with some way of asking for sex. And you can of course ignore the request and refuse to have sex. The same way if you come up to your dog and he refuse to have sex with you in that moment.
You are not going to be your dog's bitch because this is impractical and in fact incompatible with normal life.
You are going to turn your dog down in public, because you are not a moron, and you are not going to do dumb shit like have sex with an animal in public.
That is if at all your dog will ever ask for sex in the public. Which my dog has never done ever in the past 10 years despite being hornier than I am.
At best he asks me for sex when we have visitors over or when I am visiting my family. And all you have to do is to take him off you and ignore the request.

 

[Tom121]

Thanks for the answers.

 

[Torok2077]

The alpha theory is flawed and in fact was disproved by the person who came up with it.
The partnership between you and your dog can be much more equal.
He wants sex, you do not, so you refuse and vice versa.
Most animals will come up with some way of asking for sex. And you can of course ignore the request and refuse to have sex. The same way if you come up to your dog and he refuse to have sex with you in that moment.
You are not going to be your dog's bitch because this is impractical and in fact incompatible with normal life.
You are going to turn your dog down in public, because you are not a moron, and you are not going to do dumb shit like have sex with an animal in public.
That is if at all your dog will ever ask for sex in the public. Which my dog has never done ever in the past 10 years despite being hornier than I am.
At best he asks me for sex when we have visitors over or when I am visiting my family. And all you have to do is to take him off you and ignore the request.

Soooo much knowledge?????

 

[pes]

Are you his bich only during the fun time or all the time?

This is also a pretty dangerous mindset incompatible with what you want to do in real life.
You absolutely have to have your dog under your control the more the bigger the dog is.
There is no way you can have a large dog you obey as his bitch, because that illusion will shatter the moment you step outside. Let alone meet other dogs or other people or other animals or a bus.

You might be able to get away with having a spoiled dog at home. But that will transfer to outside as well and then you get yourself or your dog into trouble.

The idea of being a dog's bitch is nice and fine here on the forum where it is sexually charged and looks cool, but you do not want that in real life and it is pretty much impossible if you want to have a normal life.

 

[girl83]

This is also a pretty dangerous mindset incompatible with what you want to do in real life.
You absolutely have to have your dog under your control the more the bigger the dog is.
There is no way you can have a large dog you obey as his bitch, because that illusion will shatter the moment you step outside. Let alone meet other dogs or other people or other animals or a bus.

You might be able to get away with having a spoiled dog at home. But that will transfer to outside as well and then you get yourself or your dog into trouble.

The idea of being a dog's bitch is nice and fine here on the forum where it is sexually charged and looks cool, but you do not want that in real life and it is pretty much impossible if you want to have a normal life.

sensible words

 

[Tom121]

This is also a pretty dangerous mindset incompatible with what you want to do in real life.
You absolutely have to have your dog under your control the more the bigger the dog is.
There is no way you can have a large dog you obey as his bitch, because that illusion will shatter the moment you step outside. Let alone meet other dogs or other people or other animals or a bus.

You might be able to get away with having a spoiled dog at home. But that will transfer to outside as well and then you get yourself or your dog into trouble.

The idea of being a dog's bitch is nice and fine here on the forum where it is sexually charged and looks cool, but you do not want that in real life and it is pretty much impossible if you want to have a normal life.

I agree

 

[Okami]

In sport dog training, we use a dogs natural genetics drives to our advantage. We teach a dog that if they want to satisfy one of their drives(food drive, prey drive, play drive, etc), then they need to seek us out. It’s called engagement. You want the dog to always seek you out and ask you to play ball or train.

With sex, it’s very similar. At its most basic level, we teach our dogs to see us a sexual partners and that they can satisfy their sexual needs through us and vice versa. It has nothing to do with being sub or dom or an alpha role or any of that BS. My dogs respect me and are obedient to me during training but will happily fuck me if they ask or I offer. You build a strong sexual relationship with your dog. Just the same that we teach dogs in sport trianing that any tike they want to play or train engage, they seek us out and ask, you do the same for sex. Teach him to see you as a sexual partner. He can respect you as his owner and be obedient to you in training or your regular day to day, and happily have sex with you when you’re in the mood.

 

[mushka]

for me, i think rhe dog must know that you are the leader and respect you before you can attemp sex. It's a must to make him learn there is moment and place to make this (a dog can understant that). RESPECT him too if he doesn't want sex (you will know) control your pulsions and finish you alone. The dog will never change it's mind of you, for him sex it's like a game and you makes the rules. You take peasure both and he understant that. Hope it's help, it's my way to see things.

 

[Okami]

for me, i think rhe dog must know that you are the leader and respect you before you can attemp sex. It's a must to make him learn there is moment and place to make this (a dog can understant that). RESPECT him too if he doesn't want sex (you will know) control your pulsions and finish you alone. The dog will never change it's mind of you, for him sex it's like a game and you makes the rules. You take peasure both and he understant that. Hope it's help, it's my way to see things.

I don’t think being a leader or respect has anything to do with sex. If that were the case, dogs wouldn’t do anything sexual with anyone but their owners. Sex is a natural drive for the dog, same as food drive and prey drive. It can be high or low or extreme. Normally dogs don’t have sex recreationally and that drive is only satisfied through breeding, but we teach them that recreational sex is a thing tney can engage in and ask for. It’s a 50/50 thing. It’s not a leader/follower or sub/dom dynamic. It’s more of a partnership. And respect isn’t a factor. I’ve had plenty of sexual experiences with lots of different dogs. My own dogs, friends dogs, dogs that knew me, dogs I just met that day. With varying relationships. There have been a dogs that I’ve done protection work with that essentially see me as a prey object to dominate that loved having sex with me. There have also been dogs that I only met that day that happily had sex with me.

 

[mushka]

I don’t think being a leader or respect has anything to do with sex. If that were the case, dogs wouldn’t do anything sexual with anyone but their owners. Sex is a natural drive for the dog, same as food drive and prey drive. It can be high or low or extreme. Normally dogs don’t have sex recreationally and that drive is only satisfied through breeding, but we teach them that recreational sex is a thing tney can engage in and ask for. It’s a 50/50 thing. It’s not a leader/follower or sub/dom dynamic. It’s more of a partnership. And respect isn’t a factor. I’ve had plenty of sexual experiences with lots of different dogs. My own dogs, friends dogs, dogs that knew me, dogs I just met that day. With varying relationships. There have been a dogs that I’ve done protection work with that essentially see me as a prey object to dominate that loved having sex with me. There have also been dogs that I only met that day that happily had sex with me.

we don't have the same way to see thing but, i love my dog and he know it. If you don't fuck for reproduction it's for fun... i don't know for you but for me a dog need a leader if ill be 50/50 with my dog he probably take a lot of really bad decisions liike try to be the leader at my place. He ask for sex and mee too but never in front of other people. I'm not a monster just a leader of a big dog, when we take a walk with his leach he walk the nose at my knee, if he is losse he check at me to keep an eye contact. I can let him alone in the house for 12 hours or let him at dog boarding for 1 week without separation anxiety or stupid question about it's comportment. We are in perfect harmony... have a good day it's fun to talk about it

 

[Kailenko]

I've never really noticed any difference between any of the 4 experiences I've had, so I can't really relate these.