Bringing it up to your partner

[eastcoastknot]

I’m sure this thread has been made a million times over, if so feel free to delete the post. I’m new to the site, very relieved to finally find a spot with many like minded people. I’m from a small area where everyone’s ears are open more then their eyes and mouths move a mile a minute. I’ve been with my wife for 13 years now (not all married) have always had zoo on the brain but never had an opportunity to act on it nor the balls really. But now with age going up (32 year old male) and a few near death experiences I figured what the hell I may as well explore. So I was trying to figure it out, meanwhile I didn’t know but my wife was in the middle of getting us a purebred golden retriever. So now I have him running around in the house and getting older. I’ve always been curious about being used by a male dog (have had some bi experiences in the past.) I’m also very enticed by watching my wife get used by him as well, but I have no idea on how to even bring that up. She’s very YES or NO there’s no thinking about anything in between, she’s been open to some things I didn’t think she would in the past, but has also shut down some ideas just as quick. So basically I’m just wondering how/if anyone brought this up to a long time significant other? How you went about it? Or should I just leave it in the fantasy bank and move along.

 

[pudgymuffin]

Me and my wife enjoy looking at porn together, and it let us feel where we were each at. I learned she was a sub before I learned she was a furry before I learned that different types of dicks fascinate her and on and on it went.
She also told me she would never do it when she admitted she like it. I never had to pressure her, I just put it on sometimes when we were having sex like any other porn then one day she told me unprompted that she's game to try.
That's as far as we've gone, but these things take time. That's just my experience though. Hope that helps.

 

[pandskink]

I've been with my wife for 16 years. We're mid 30s and I always turned to watching girls getting mounted when I was really horny from a very young age.

My wife and i was very open and I had always told her I was into something but was unwilling to tell her for fear of being judged.
One evening we were both rolling on M and the topic came up about my deepest secret and I told her I would share it with her as long as she promised not to get up set.

From there I proceeded to tell her I liked watching girls getting fucked by dogs and was fascinated their dicks and the sheer amount of cum they produced. She asked to see a video and was very curious. The next day she was a little taken back by it and I treaded lightly on the subject for a week or so until another night i asked if she would ok to watch some of the porn with me. I kept its very basic, sticking to less graphic and no oral videos. But that showed all the cum. Little did I know she came from watching it with out telling me and from that moment on we've been actively trying to get us both mounted. It's ? become our thing and all our dirty talk.

 

[annieFL]

I’m sure this thread has been made a million times over, if so feel free to delete the post. I’m new to the site, very relieved to finally find a spot with many like minded people. I’m from a small area where everyone’s ears are open more then their eyes and mouths move a mile a minute. I’ve been with my wife for 13 years now (not all married) have always had zoo on the brain but never had an opportunity to act on it nor the balls really. But now with age going up (32 year old male) and a few near death experiences I figured what the hell I may as well explore. So I was trying to figure it out, meanwhile I didn’t know but my wife was in the middle of getting us a purebred golden retriever. So now I have him running around in the house and getting older. I’ve always been curious about being used by a male dog (have had some bi experiences in the past.) I’m also very enticed by watching my wife get used by him as well, but I have no idea on how to even bring that up. She’s very YES or NO there’s no thinking about anything in between, she’s been open to some things I didn’t think she would in the past, but has also shut down some ideas just as quick. So basically I’m just wondering how/if anyone brought this up to a long time significant other? How you went about it? Or should I just leave it in the fantasy bank and move along.

I have the same problem, with with my husband.

 

[eastcoastknot]

I've been with my wife for 16 years. We're mid 30s and I always turned to watching girls getting mounted when I was really horny from a very young age.

My wife and i was very open and I had always told her I was into something but was unwilling to tell her for fear of being judged.
One evening we were both rolling on M and the topic came up about my deepest secret and I told her I would share it with her as long as she promised not to get up set.

From there I proceeded to tell her I liked watching girls getting fucked by dogs and was fascinated their dicks and the sheer amount of cum they produced. She asked to see a video and was very curious. The next day she was a little taken back by it and I treaded lightly on the subject for a week or so until another night i asked if she would ok to watch some of the porn with me. I kept its very basic, sticking to less graphic and no oral videos. But that showed all the cum. Little did I know she came from watching it with out telling me and from that moment on we've been actively trying to get us both mounted. It's ? become our thing and all our dirty talk.

My wife’s pretty reserved when it comes to “out of the box” ideas and she’s doesn’t watch porn unfortunately. “Doesn’t do anything for her” almost looks at it as a form of cheating which is ridiculous. So I’m thinking I may have to keep things quiet and just keep to the fantasies or going out on my own to fulfill my end.

 

[Bluephoenyx]

I know the struggle, i mean, i went out to start dating a girl who already knew what i like, from she wanting to check it out herself, to then not wanting to do anything about it (even though she told me many times that it's not that she doesn't like it). But she told me she wants a "more normal relationship". I dunno really, but i know how you feel

 

[TammCa]

Man, dog, girl < or another girl, that my view of normal, the other is way to vanilla for me