Break-Up With Partner Also Into This

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I just had a quick check and could not find a topic like this. Just thought about it now:

For those who were in a relationship with someone who was also into zoo, how did splitting go?

Did your interest in bestiality increase or diminish after the break-up? Did you ever worry they would try to out you as revenge (I guess this would only apply if the break-up was nasty)?

Did the zoo lifestyle ever contribute to the break-up?

Really curious in people's answers. My ex was not into this, but that was not a factor in us breaking up.

 

[Dogdaddy69]

I've dated a little more than a handful of zoo-ish men. All but one of those relationships ended for reasonably vanilla reasons: poor communication, different expectations stemming from poor communication, being in different life positions, fiscal issues. Those breakups weren't of the Jerry Springer/Dumpster Fire variety so we parted amicably (or better). Two of them I'm still friends with.

The "but one" fellow and I split because of zoo. My being with another lover (albeit a dog) drew out his insecuries in unpleasant ways even though it was the relationship he wanted - vanilla on the outside, zoo-ish girlfriend behind closed doors. For him it was a jealousy thing, and he struggled to get a handle on it and unfortunately, never did.

In my mind, zoo is merely just another compatibility factor like anything else. I wouldn't want it to be the foundation of a relationship nor the primary purpose of the same.

Bingo.

And, looking around here, I see way too many people that think this is the *one* thing they've been getting wrong. When the reality is while this may be the one thing you *think* you need, but it isn't the missing ingredient in a relationship.

Basing a relationship ON this will get you exactly the same result as basing it on big tits and blond hair or 6 foot tall and making 6 figures. The end result is going to be the same because this is one area of compatibility, just like having big tits or making 6 figures.

In the end, you'll have one more failure most likely, and now, a lot more exposure.

 

[saddlebum66]

People always think its just that simple twist that, if they can only get it right, will open Heaven's gate. Even the nits and the clods don't see themselves in a bad way....they can't. But the reality escapes most of them. They want, you got, why can't they have....seems like a simple problem to solve. It is...if you want to solve it. But change is the hardest of all human endeavors to get right... And the ones who need to change most are those who are least likely to be able to.

When it comes to people, you pick the worthwhile, as you can see that, and then love them for what they are, not what you wish they were. It has to start with friendship.

And if you take some pains to do this, there wont be repercussions if a breakup occurs. They happen....but if they started in friendship they wont end in hate or worse

 

[Realaccount9]

I just had a quick check and could not find a topic like this. Just thought about it now:

For those who were in a relationship with someone who was also into zoo, how did splitting go?

Did your interest in bestiality increase or diminish after the break-up? Did you ever worry they would try to out you as revenge (I guess this would only apply if the break-up was nasty)?

Did the zoo lifestyle ever contribute to the break-up?

Really curious in people's answers. My ex was not into this, but that was not a factor in us breaking up.

We split up because of interpersonal things. Nothing to do with our sex life, which was incredible.

I think both of our interests actually increased after. While together we experimented with tying her down, and teasing her while she watched bestiality. We played with inflatable dildos and got her a collar. After we break up though, she literally got a large dog lol.

It's been a few years, no fear of revenge. Biggest advice is don't open yourself up to people who are shitheads.