So I had a dog about 20 years ago I bonded with. I did not have any sexual interaction with him, he was my bud. I loved him and when he passed I was absolutely heartbroken. I waited a long time to even consider another one, and when I went looking I just couldn't get past my guilt of replacing him. I also had a cat whom I loved dearly, when she passed (long after my pup), I felt the same way. Devastated to say the least, and after years of not having any pets, I recently considered another cat, but found myself heartbroken over my girl. As if I was committing some act of betrayal. I have no problem bonding with other people's pets, I don't feel guilty or saddened by it. Even thinking about the possibility of bringing in a dog or cat now brings up feelings of sadness and betrayal. I'm not sure how after all this time I still feel this way. Any ideas or thoughts?
