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Dog5353

Dog5353

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I host a chat group for women who've had sexual experience with dogs on a couple of other platforms, and when I recommended Zooville as a good place to find useful information, one of the users related that she joined here and people were very friendly until she started sharing photos of herself, and then she got stalked and harassed. It's a real shame, because we need places to find community and not drive folks away.
 
Dog5353 said:
I host a chat group for women who've had sexual experience with dogs on a couple of other platforms, and when I recommended Zooville as a good place to find useful information, one of the users related that she joined here and people were very friendly until she started sharing photos of herself, and then she got stalked and harassed. It's a real shame, because we need places to find community and not drive folks away.
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Unfortunately there's creeps everywhere, I'm sorry for her but I don't think there's much we can do
We can't teach those guys to be behave because there's definitely a lack of education in the first place.
So ignoring and blocking seems like the best solution
 
For a site that relies on amateur volunteer content, though, you could hope for a little less "biting the hand that feeds it." Seems like dogs are more trainable than us.
 
Dog5353 said:
For a site that relies on amateur volunteer content, though, you could hope for a little less "biting the hand that feeds it." Seems like dogs are more trainable than us.
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There always will be some people to act in the worst way possible towards other people
I think we got to learn to live with at some points
Ignoring remains the best weapon even though its not always easy
 
You can't expect women to come here with skin already thickened, though. People who are just starting on this journey can be so vulnerable. I get what you're saying, we can't force people to be decent, but anything we can do to protect the brave folks who are putting themselves out there is worth doing.
 
Dog5353 said:
I host a chat group for women who've had sexual experience with dogs on a couple of other platforms, and when I recommended Zooville as a good place to find useful information, one of the users related that she joined here and people were very friendly until she started sharing photos of herself, and then she got stalked and harassed. It's a real shame, because we need places to find community and not drive folks away.
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"Stalked and harassed." Those are subjective terms which don't mean the same to everyone who speaks them. Stalked and harassed to one woman is craved attention to another, so, it would be better to know more about what she experienced.
That said, if you post images of yourself on any site having to do with sex of any kind, you have to be ready for anything, because you will likely get it.
 
Call me old-fashioned in my mid-40s, but I think much of this behaviour when posting images can be traced back to the overriding theme of this forum: zoosexuality takes centre stage, so people feel less inhibited, and leave all social etiquette at the door (well, login portal). And those who still commit to civilised talks are easily shouted down and made invisible with those who think with their trousers brains rather than their head brains.
 
Kristy said:
"Stalked and harassed." Those are subjective terms which don't mean the same to everyone who speaks them. Stalked and harassed to one woman is craved attention to another, so, it would be better to know more about what she experienced.
That said, if you post images of yourself on any site having to do with sex of any kind, you have to be ready for anything, because you will likely get it.
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Good points all around. Sometimes it's amazing this board works at all, especially considering the blend of members who enjoy the degrading aspects of sex with animals and members who are offended that anyone would find such a thing degrading. Some people come here looking for compassion and some people welcome and enjoy abuse.
 
Dog5353 said:
Good points all around. Sometimes it's amazing this board works at all, especially considering the blend of members who enjoy the degrading aspects of sex with animals and members who are offended that anyone would find such a thing degrading. Some people come here looking for compassion and some people welcome and enjoy abuse.
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Some people are simply looking for like minded friends and to stop feeling like they are the only ones being into zoo
And sometimes it can lead to something
 
Blue_Furry said:
Some people are simply looking for like minded friends and to stop feeling like they are the only ones being into zoo
And sometimes it can lead to something
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Yes, that's why I've started these groups elsewhere, and why i direct people here, but I have to warn people that while Zooville contains great information and great people, it's not a safe space by any means, you have to be careful.
 
Dog5353 said:
Good points all around. Sometimes it's amazing this board works at all, especially considering the blend of members who enjoy the degrading aspects of sex with animals and members who are offended that anyone would find such a thing degrading. Some people come here looking for compassion and some people welcome and enjoy abuse.
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That's why new members need to familiarize themselves with the site before jumping in. If all you want are friendly people or compassion, you'll then know where to be assured of getting those things. You will also know where you just might be given a hard time or exposed to the abuse of others.
Problem: Too many people are not smart enough for all that, and they find themselves where, mentally, they KNOW they don't belong. There are even warnings at the top of such sections. (DF) Still, they find themselves running away, screaming, "I hate this place!"
 
Dog5353 said:
Yes, that's why I've started these groups elsewhere, and why i direct people here, but I have to warn people that while Zooville contains great information and great people, it's not a safe space by any means, you have to be careful.
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We need to be careful literally everywhere these days and that's really unfortunate
For example where I live I simply can go outside during the night
 
If the harrassing level deserves it, *report* it.
(yes, DM can be reported too, then staff can see them and act)
This way it really clears the herd
 
k9Queen said:
I haven't had any harassment as of yet. I won't put up with it though. My dad didn't raise a little bitch lol.

This is all great info though, thank you all.
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I sincerely hope it won't happen to you
And I think you're not gonna let that happen anyway
 
The only way to remove the pervs, is to find them.

The only way to find them, is for them to open their mouths, AND for the receiver to report it.

Unfortunately with porn, comes creeps. If you're posting sexy pics of yourself, those creeps will gather to that, like flies to a fresh shit.

Even as a guy, first 24 hours from a post, I usually get a couple, not always on here, sometimes they poke my TG, not thinking that it could be an antizoo clone. Usually the nasty comments are reserved for my girl, but I still feel it for her.

Block, report, and try to understand that these creeps have no limits, and it's not personal. It's all you can really do, unless you strip the porn section entirely, removing their reasons for being here.
 
Dog5353 said:
I host a chat group for women who've had sexual experience with dogs on a couple of other platforms, and when I recommended Zooville as a good place to find useful information, one of the users related that she joined here and people were very friendly until she started sharing photos of herself, and then she got stalked and harassed. It's a real shame, because we need places to find community and not drive folks away.
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A damn shame.
 
JazzyPaws said:
The only way to remove the pervs, is to find them.

The only way to find them, is for them to open their mouths, AND for the receiver to report it.

Unfortunately with porn, comes creeps. If you're posting sexy pics of yourself, those creeps will gather to that, like flies to a fresh shit.

Even as a guy, first 24 hours from a post, I usually get a couple, not always on here, sometimes they poke my TG, not thinking that it could be an antizoo clone. Usually the nasty comments are reserved for my girl, but I still feel it for her.

Block, report, and try to understand that these creeps have no limits, and it's not personal. It's all you can really do, unless you strip the porn section entirely, removing their reasons for being here.
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I doubt the porn is the only reason for creeps to be here, Jazzy....Any more than anywhere else. Porn built the Internet. Porn taught every early lesson in E-business. Porn even presented the Supreme Court of the US with a First Amendment fight. See Hefner and Ginsburg( Ralph, not Allen), which HAD to be won....or we here present would not be.
Being down on porn is an easy stance to take, considering what comes under the heading, and it puts a lot of us HERE right in with the societal bluenoses and pecksniffs. Those folks that would cut our throats in a heartbeat, if they could, in service to their idea of the Little City on A Hill.

We tolerate the snowflakes as well as the creeps, and the snowflakes MIGHT be worse, because not one has a spine. Cleaning up porn is a tough job....possibly impossible...but one person's ceiling is another's floor...and there is nothing, aside from restrained and immature critters, that seems inherently recognizable as wrong HERE. Not letting those things be fostered here is a good thing, obviously. But where is a line being drawn to prevent going to the opposite extreme?....Fanaticism is the same thing, whatever preceding label, Christian, Muslim, clean, dirty, Anti-porn, wide-open. The way things are going, I have doubts about the survival of sites like this one....The power of the Pecksniff is in ascendant mode.

So it is indeed a block, report, and dont take it personal defense....but I wonder how many bother? Sure doesn't seem like many....Most of the flakes just wait and "let George do it".

and again....not specifically aimed at you....just taking the entre' offered
 
saddlebum66 said:
I doubt the porn is the only reason for creeps to be here, Jazzy....Any more than anywhere else.
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Never said that

saddlebum66 said:
Porn built the Internet. Porn taught every early lesson in E-business. Porn even presented the Supreme Court of the US with a First Amendment fight. See Hefner and Ginsburg( Ralph, not Allen), which HAD to be won....or we here present would not be.
Being down on porn is an easy stance to take, considering what comes under the heading, and it puts a lot of us HERE right in with the societal bluenoses and pecksniffs. Those folks that would cut our throats in a heartbeat, if they could, in service to their idea of the Little City on A Hill.
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Not entirely sure why a porn history snippet was needed.. I'm not down on porn tho, I'm just saying it comes with its set of issues. How could I be down on porn when I have my own content library?

saddlebum66 said:
We tolerate the snowflakes as well as the creeps, and the snowflakes MIGHT be worse, because not one has a spine. Cleaning up porn is a tough job....possibly impossible...but one person's ceiling is another's floor...and there is nothing, aside from restrained and immature critters, that seems inherently recognizable as wrong HERE. Not letting those things be fostered here is a good thing, obviously. But where is a line being drawn to prevent going to the opposite extreme?....Fanaticism is the same thing, whatever preceding label, Christian, Muslim, clean, dirty, Anti-porn, wide-open. The way things are going, I have doubts about the survival of sites like this one....The power of the Pecksniff is in ascendant mode.
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What is considered abuse or not, in porn, isn't really related to the discussion overall, so again, skipping this part.

saddlebum66 said:
So it is indeed a block, report, and dont take it personal defense....but I wonder how many bother? Sure doesn't seem like many....Most of the flakes just wait and "let George do it".

and again....not specifically aimed at you....just taking the entre' offered
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I didn't assume you aimed at me tho a couple parts didn't require my own rebuttal, as it seema you either took something incorrectly, or ballooned something I said last it's meaning.

Either way this is a thread on being good to people instead of being creepy. My point stands that porn does bring that kind of person, but I never claimed it was alone.
 
It was the last paragraph...but again, it wasnt aimed at you...Just a general statement. If the porn was to go off the site, the user number would drop to 3.2. There must be a better solution.
 
I don't think anyone was proposing removing porn from the site. It is true that we aren't necessarily our best selves when we are acting purely out of arousal. Sometimes we have a tendency to treat our animal friends better than our human ones.
 
Tell your group to limit who is DMing them. Beware any and every user here as if they are a flight risk until they are confident that they are true and genuine. MANY gender fakes here. Keep all information minimal and disregard the fools. Women are a short supply here and even being civil as a species many walk on their knuckles and let their dick do the talking first. Be vigilant and enjoy the ride.✌️
 
Dog5353 said:
I host a chat group for women who've had sexual experience with dogs on a couple of other platforms, and when I recommended Zooville as a good place to find useful information, one of the users related that she joined here and people were very friendly until she started sharing photos of herself, and then she got stalked and harassed. It's a real shame, because we need places to find community and not drive folks away.
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thats not cool. we are all the same
 
There are crazies everywhere - unstable, insatiable...obsessive people. But the unfortunate reality is that in our community, the risks of our "crazies" acting out on their instabilities can have devastating consequences to us both personally and community-wide. I hate your friend had that experience. In a non-zoo forum, I've been stalked and harassed before. Threatened even. The risk there was negligible though, but here? I can only imagine how unsettling it must've felt for her.
 
BTW - thank you for pushing this message. People are so antagonistic now - adversarial for the sake of being adversarial; especially in online forums. Kindness is king ?
 
We need that balance! I tend to be the opposite. Not in some attempt to be "better", but we need *that* balance also. Doesn't mean I don't believe in spot-welding my foot to someone's @$$ who needs it, but....??‍♂️?.
 
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