GlimmeringGreen
Tourist
[Question] - For those who have met-up with owners to have their first time experience OR those who simply met up with owners for the first time to have an experience.. how do you go about doing it so it's not awkward, and what advice would you give to those of us who are new?
[Optional Rambling Thoughts] - Meetups in general seem like they can be an awkward and uncomfortable thing, especially for those who are new to the scene. I'm kind of curious how you break the ice and if there are any normal ground rules or acceptable expectations, for both your first time doing and first time meeting.
We're a couple who has not taken that first step so getting wisdom and advice from those who have would be great.
Honestly, I (M) am just here because I enjoy the fantasy of watching, but she is interested in the actual doing. So while I would be there for her safety, I am not sure how it would even work or not just be too awkward to ruin the entire mood or cause cold feet.
For us, because being discreet is key, there could absolutely be no videos. We definitely don't want anyone else being physically involved or making sexual advances.. or running into a situation where, "I'm just helping my boy" while being a bit too handsy type thing. Maybe we are overthinking things.
Then there's the question of how you leave after a successful meet up? Like is it, "oh wow, you're really awesome and appreciate you sharing your boy with us. Im glad he also had a great time. See you again sometime?" - as you awkwardly part ways? lol
Stuck in the think tank while we consider what the "next step" looks like and if we're ready for that type of thing.
[Optional Rambling Thoughts] - Meetups in general seem like they can be an awkward and uncomfortable thing, especially for those who are new to the scene. I'm kind of curious how you break the ice and if there are any normal ground rules or acceptable expectations, for both your first time doing and first time meeting.
We're a couple who has not taken that first step so getting wisdom and advice from those who have would be great.
Honestly, I (M) am just here because I enjoy the fantasy of watching, but she is interested in the actual doing. So while I would be there for her safety, I am not sure how it would even work or not just be too awkward to ruin the entire mood or cause cold feet.
For us, because being discreet is key, there could absolutely be no videos. We definitely don't want anyone else being physically involved or making sexual advances.. or running into a situation where, "I'm just helping my boy" while being a bit too handsy type thing. Maybe we are overthinking things.
Then there's the question of how you leave after a successful meet up? Like is it, "oh wow, you're really awesome and appreciate you sharing your boy with us. Im glad he also had a great time. See you again sometime?" - as you awkwardly part ways? lol
Stuck in the think tank while we consider what the "next step" looks like and if we're ready for that type of thing.