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Anyone had a sad feels moment that comes outta nowhere.

Reconscope

Reconscope

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To me it literally comes outta nowhere when i hear them playing with a squeaky toy noise. The innocence of it just makes me say "Awww" but deep down theres still the fact after your friend is gone all you see is that item but no squeaky noise due to their missing presence. Excuse me if im shifty in my mood here. Its just my thoughts currently.
 
Reconscope said:
To me it literally comes outta nowhere when i hear them playing with a squeaky toy noise. The innocence of it just makes me say "Awww" but deep down theres still the fact after your friend is gone all you see is that item but no squeaky noise due to their missing presence. Excuse me if im shifty in my mood here. Its just my thoughts currently.
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Sorry to see you're feeling down. Some advice? Just live in the moment you have with your partner, take everything you have there and cherish it.

If you have something that keeps you in the past try to let go of it or move on. Nothing stays the same forever.
 
I have so many of them that I've become a living meme for such emotions. I've already been to therapy and been prescribed medications up the nose over the years, and yet here I am, still as miserable as day 1. All I can do is just...ride it out.

People tell me to get help, well...I've already gotten help. It didn't do much. All I can do now is just...be me.
 
Reconscope said:
To me it literally comes outta nowhere when i hear them playing with a squeaky toy noise. The innocence of it just makes me say "Awww" but deep down theres still the fact after your friend is gone all you see is that item but no squeaky noise due to their missing presence. Excuse me if im shifty in my mood here. Its just my thoughts currently.
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I'm sorry. I truly am...I know that's rough.
 
Kristy said:
I'm sorry. I truly am...I know that's rough.
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No my girl didnt die i just feel sad WHEN i hear such a innocent noise (like a squeaky toy) and theres no one to fill that spot leaving their toys behind. When someone does die the objects still remain for them.
 
The sad feels hit whenever I draw women; one can imagine the depths of sadness after making so many drawings of them.
 
Reconscope said:
No my girl didnt die i just feel sad WHEN i hear such a innocent noise (like a squeaky toy) and theres no one to fill that spot leaving their toys behind. When someone does die the objects still remain for them.
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Ah, I understand. Thanks.
 
Yes. They typically come at night time when I'm alone. I've battled depression before and got therapy for it. I'm in a much better place than I was a year ago, but I'm making it by. It's why I'm typically active on here at night, it helps me not get all sad and stuff. I'm able to embrace who I am and what more can I want. Sorry if that got a little too deep.
 
TeslaModel3 said:
Yes. They typically come at night time when I'm alone. I've battled depression before and got therapy for it. I'm in a much better place than I was a year ago, but I'm making it by. It's why I'm typically active on here at night, it helps me not get all sad and stuff. I'm able to embrace who I am and what more can I want. Sorry if that got a little too deep.
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Nope, it wasn't too deep for us. We're glad we can be here for that purpose for you. Hang tough.
 
Reconscope said:
Do they say "wHaT ArE yOu wAiTiNg fOr fInIsH mE alReAdY" maybe thats why your sad there. But seriously are they realistic or manga?
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A little bit of both; more like manga-influenced.
 
Kristy said:
Hope so. We sometimes imagine ourselves to be pretty strong, still knowing we'll be really tested at crunch time.
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I know i dont imagine myself as strong. as i said long ago when someone i dated burned my emotions pretty bad. She just happened to be near me when i was in my distraught period. Fast forward X number of years here i am.
 
I have battled depression for a long time. I take meds but the side effects are so bad that I'm better off with coping with the depression. It is part of the reason I watch so much porn, masturbate, and watch Youtube videos. It is the only way to escape. I used to drink but now I can't. I used to smoke cigars but now I can't. I'm addicted to beast porn but if I quit then what am I supposed to fucking do? I don't do drugs. Am I supposed to go to the bar and start picking up bitches. Everyone I knew who used to do drugs is either dead or in prison. Everyone I know who used to chase the chicks at the bar have either HIV or Hep-C. Everyone I know who is still drinking is divorced and can no longer drive. It seems like life fills us with pain and anything that could possibly take it away is either bad for you or too expensive. If death is not an escape then why is it so painless. The dark void seems so much better than this.
 
DannyWotan said:
I have battled depression for a long time. I take meds but the side effects are so bad that I'm better off with coping with the depression. It is part of the reason I watch so much porn, masturbate, and watch Youtube videos. It is the only way to escape. I used to drink but now I can't. I used to smoke cigars but now I can't. I'm addicted to beast porn but if I quit then what am I supposed to fucking do? I don't do drugs. Am I supposed to go to the bar and start picking up bitches. Everyone I knew who used to do drugs is either dead or in prison. Everyone I know who used to chase the chicks at the bar have either HIV or Hep-C. Everyone I know who is still drinking is divorced and can no longer drive. It seems like life fills us with pain and anything that could possibly take it away is either bad for you or too expensive. If death is not an escape then why is it so painless. The dark void seems so much better than this.
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just saying if only life is all porn only they are all always so happy in 'that' world they are in. if we can be that everyday.
 
DannyWotan said:
I have battled depression for a long time. I take meds but the side effects are so bad that I'm better off with coping with the depression. It is part of the reason I watch so much porn, masturbate, and watch Youtube videos. It is the only way to escape. I used to drink but now I can't. I used to smoke cigars but now I can't. I'm addicted to beast porn but if I quit then what am I supposed to fucking do? I don't do drugs. Am I supposed to go to the bar and start picking up bitches. Everyone I knew who used to do drugs is either dead or in prison. Everyone I know who used to chase the chicks at the bar have either HIV or Hep-C. Everyone I know who is still drinking is divorced and can no longer drive. It seems like life fills us with pain and anything that could possibly take it away is either bad for you or too expensive. If death is not an escape then why is it so painless. The dark void seems so much better than this.
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I've been to that point, so I understand exactly what you're saying. Just remember it's not worth doing it.
 
DannyWotan said:
I have battled depression for a long time. I take meds but the side effects are so bad that I'm better off with coping with the depression. It is part of the reason I watch so much porn, masturbate, and watch Youtube videos. It is the only way to escape. I used to drink but now I can't. I used to smoke cigars but now I can't. I'm addicted to beast porn but if I quit then what am I supposed to fucking do? I don't do drugs. Am I supposed to go to the bar and start picking up bitches. Everyone I knew who used to do drugs is either dead or in prison. Everyone I know who used to chase the chicks at the bar have either HIV or Hep-C. Everyone I know who is still drinking is divorced and can no longer drive. It seems like life fills us with pain and anything that could possibly take it away is either bad for you or too expensive. If death is not an escape then why is it so painless. The dark void seems so much better than this.
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Congratulations on knowing some of the things that are bad for you and your efforts to stay away from them. Questions for you:
Who prescribes your meds, an MD or psychiatrist? (It makes a difference)
Do you ever take more than the prescribed amount? Be HONEST.
Do you always take them when you're supposed to? Always?
Do you drink any alcohol at all? You said you can't drink now, but do you allow yourself just a little from to time?
I have more things to say, but ONLY if you're interested in hearing them. I've stopped talking this way to people who really don't care when someone is trying to offer a little help. I won't attempt to say things only your doctor should tell you. I need those answers first, please.
 
Life has brought me sadness and hopefully with time a dog will bring me the opportunity to fill that void.
As for the day they will eventually pass, it's the times you have and the feelings in those moments being happy that you remember in a positive light as if they never left.
 
I call it the waves. Like an ocean. The wave hits me and I am submerged and feel like I'm drowning, sometimes I'm swept out with it and sometimes it subsides away again leaving me with a film of it. When it pulls me out I have learned not to fight it but to be calm and wait till I can move sideways then let myself surface and try to swim back to the shore before the next one.
It is grief and it is powerful. Eventually it can change not go away but be something livable.
 
Yes, maybe a smell or sound. Song, or random memory triggers it. ??‍♀️

hugs @Reconscope sorry for your loss! It’salways hard losing a furry friend.
 
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