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Advice on telling partner you’re into beastiality

shoopdogg

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So my partner is unaware I’m into this fetish. I’ve never been with an animal, but have been into it on porn sites. What experiences or advice would you have with telling my partner?
 
Thats a good question. I have a friend that is female and she is into quite a lot. She surprises me every now and then with things she would like to try. But THIS would be treacherous ground.
 
Is a kink worth her walking away forever? In today's society beastiality is rejected HARD because of close minded ideology.

If you have to have it in your life, which I don't think you know weather you like it or not, and she rejects it can you send her away?

If you can take the possible recourse of the rejection side of it then be honest with her UP FRONT. Dropping hints may never be picked up on by her in a serious manner. Talking to her face to face is the best way to move forward.

If you're afraid she'll think it's sickening then tell her details to 'some porn' you watched and gauge her reaction
 
Is a kink worth her walking away forever? In today's society beastiality is rejected HARD because of close minded ideology.

If you have to have it in your life, which I don't think you know weather you like it or not, and she rejects it can you send her away?

If you can take the possible recourse of the rejection side of it then be honest with her UP FRONT. Dropping hints may never be picked up on by her in a serious manner. Talking to her face to face is the best way to move forward.

If you're afraid she'll think it's sickening then tell her details to 'some porn' you watched and gauge her reaction
Thats kind of the route I'm leaning towards
 
I am zoo so for me having a relationship with animals is not a kink, it is a preference and a lifestyle. So that said, for me making sure anyone I may spend my life with is aware of my attractions is important because I would rather have my animals than a human partner.

That said, if it is only a KINK for you, I personally would not let the knowledge of my KINK ruin an otherwise fruitful relationship.
 
Kink, yes. But I think there is fulfillment in her getting taken as she wants. I'm pretty dominant and she enjoys/needs that. I think it would be one step further for her to satisfy the baser needs of a K9 male. As a side effect it would turn me on greatly.
 
If your partner is a little open minded, you might be okay.
I think most people would be less taken aback by "I saw some zoo porn, and I think I kinda like it. What do you think?" than "I'm a complete zoophile, I have a preference for animals" like most zoophiles.
I don't think this is particularly dangerous territory unless she's a prude.
 
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Does she/he enjoy erotic stories? It might be easier to use a story of a site that is not dedicated to zoo exclusively to gauge reaction to the subject. You don't have to tell them you are into it right away just tell them you found a story site say kirstens archives for example and couldn't believe how wild some of the stories are. If they bite you go to the site go through the categories and I'm sure you will be able to get some kind of reaction from them.
 
Well I think its a fair question, I'm kinda struggling with this myself as well. Being in a 9-year relationship with a girl who is vanilla as hell, I've been struggling with my zoo fetish for quite some time.
 
I told this to my gf after 2 years of relationship, it costed me lots of courage and hesitation but i did it. I played the "i wanna tell u my secret pervertion" card, then i asked her to wait until she was very curious about that. Then after some days she asked me and i directly showed her a porn, and she watched it all commenting that she was surprised by the dog s excitement (it was a Sonya vid, selected cause the girl was moaning of pleasure). Then i touched her until she came. Sometimes she asks me to show her some videos and i do, while playing with her pussy.
I think that to talk about this fetish with our partners, it needs lots of complicity and will to be understood more than horniness and will to make our partners horny
 
Well I think its a fair question, I'm kinda struggling with this myself as well. Being in a 9-year relationship with a girl who is vanilla as hell, I've been struggling with my zoo fetish for quite some time.
Same boat. Near 9 years now. I wouldn’t say she’s totally vanilla, but definitely enjoys your “average” sex. I just want to be more open about my lifestyle, but fear complete rejection and disgust. She’s found a zoo porn tab open on my browser a few years back of some m/f dog stuff and incurred a not so pretty reaction.
 
if your partner is kinky and into lots of sexual things then tell them, if they are not they do not under any circumstances tell themm what you are into x
 
Is a kink worth her walking away forever? In today's society beastiality is rejected HARD because of close minded ideology.

If you have to have it in your life, which I don't think you know weather you like it or not, and she rejects it can you send her away?

If you can take the possible recourse of the rejection side of it then be honest with her UP FRONT. Dropping hints may never be picked up on by her in a serious manner. Talking to her face to face is the best way to move forward.

If you're afraid she'll think it's sickening then tell her details to 'some porn' you watched and gauge her reaction
yes, subtlety is best approach.. like commenting from afar. next step would be to say. "they must really enjoy themselves".. or "it must be so liberating to be that kinky" etc.. sexual incompatibility (and lack of desire to explore together) is the biggest reason people (particularly men), cheat... it is a need and a lack of will power to suppress natural desire and excitement, like living with shackles. We can't force desires but can tempt them and see what evolves. :)
 
I wish I could recall how the topic arose between us. It was such a casual thing that I can't even remember. Somehow, after that it became a shared fantasy/indulgence. I married a unicorn.
 
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