LmaoIt makes things a lot easier if you already have the divorce papers ready for her to sign! ?
Thats kind of the route I'm leaning towardsIs a kink worth her walking away forever? In today's society beastiality is rejected HARD because of close minded ideology.
If you have to have it in your life, which I don't think you know weather you like it or not, and she rejects it can you send her away?
If you can take the possible recourse of the rejection side of it then be honest with her UP FRONT. Dropping hints may never be picked up on by her in a serious manner. Talking to her face to face is the best way to move forward.
If you're afraid she'll think it's sickening then tell her details to 'some porn' you watched and gauge her reaction
hope they don't flip out and call the cops. All I can say.So my partner is unaware I’m into this fetish. I’ve never been with an animal, but have been into it on porn sites. What experiences or advice would you have with telling my partner?
Damn that sucks.Well I think its a fair question, I'm kinda struggling with this myself as well. Being in a 9-year relationship with a girl who is vanilla as hell, I've been struggling with my zoo fetish for quite some time.
Same boat. Near 9 years now. I wouldn’t say she’s totally vanilla, but definitely enjoys your “average” sex. I just want to be more open about my lifestyle, but fear complete rejection and disgust. She’s found a zoo porn tab open on my browser a few years back of some m/f dog stuff and incurred a not so pretty reaction.Well I think its a fair question, I'm kinda struggling with this myself as well. Being in a 9-year relationship with a girl who is vanilla as hell, I've been struggling with my zoo fetish for quite some time.
yes, subtlety is best approach.. like commenting from afar. next step would be to say. "they must really enjoy themselves".. or "it must be so liberating to be that kinky" etc.. sexual incompatibility (and lack of desire to explore together) is the biggest reason people (particularly men), cheat... it is a need and a lack of will power to suppress natural desire and excitement, like living with shackles. We can't force desires but can tempt them and see what evolves.Is a kink worth her walking away forever? In today's society beastiality is rejected HARD because of close minded ideology.
If you have to have it in your life, which I don't think you know weather you like it or not, and she rejects it can you send her away?
If you can take the possible recourse of the rejection side of it then be honest with her UP FRONT. Dropping hints may never be picked up on by her in a serious manner. Talking to her face to face is the best way to move forward.
If you're afraid she'll think it's sickening then tell her details to 'some porn' you watched and gauge her reaction