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Advice on getting bf to let me play with his dog

K91904

K91904

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I started seeing someone recently (I'll call him Joe) who has a 6yo intact bulldog. I'm dying to incorporate the pup into our play.

Joe and I have talked about my fetish in generalities - he knows dog play is a massive turn on and I want to be knotted and bred - but he's never said anything about us playing with his dog.

Last night, after fucking Joe, I coaxed the pup up on the bed to lie beside me and was petting him, hoping Joe would get excited but he didn't say anything. The pup stayed on his stomach which was disappointing! At one point I was able to fondle his balls a bit, praying he'd roll over so I could solidly stroke his balls and sheath and see if I could get him excited but that didn't happen.

I'm shy to come right out and ask Joe if I can try to get his dog horny and interested in breeding me. Also, because the pup is 6 and untested (he's never bred anything ever) I'm wondering if it'd be a case of can't teach an older dog new tricks.

Should I keep trying?Any advice would be helpful!
 
For me personally, I’d sit Joe down and have a conversation that’s as honest and straightforward as possible. It sounds tough, but ripping the band-aid off gets you the clearest and fastest answer. Tell him exactly what’s been on your mind, what you want, ask if he’s willing to compromise, etc. If it’s a hard “no”, then you’re gonna have to respect that. And don’t forget to let him know that you’re willing to respect that. You can’t be too pushy. It’s his pup, his rules.

If you’re too shy to talk to him face to face, I personally write letters whenever I’m having a tough conversation with someone close to me. That way it’s still genuine, and I can get my thoughts clearly on paper.

Remember though, if he says no, you have to respect that. Otherwise, you could end up in a world of trouble. It sucks, but sometimes you have to take the L.

And don’t push the pup either. If he’s not into it, he’s not into it. This situation requires a lot of patience and respect.
 
Jewelry Fish said:
For me personally, I’d sit Joe down and have a conversation that’s as honest and straightforward as possible. It sounds tough, but ripping the band-aid off gets you the clearest and fastest answer. Tell him exactly what’s been on your mind, what you want, ask if he’s willing to compromise, etc. If it’s a hard “no”, then you’re gonna have to respect that. And don’t forget to let him know that you’re willing to respect that. You can’t be too pushy. It’s his pup, his rules.

If you’re too shy to talk to him face to face, I personally write letters whenever I’m having a tough conversation with someone close to me. That way it’s still genuine, and I can get my thoughts clearly on paper.

Remember though, if he says no, you have to respect that. Otherwise, you could end up in a world of trouble. It sucks, but sometimes you have to take the L.

And don’t push the pup either. If he’s not into it, he’s not into it. This situation requires a lot of patience and respect.
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Agreed. I wouldn't want to push him OR the pup.

Our fantasy conversations about me being knotted just got me super excited as if he was sussing me out. Now I'm second guessing that.
 
I give you props for being so forward early on in a relationship lol. I'd be so terrified of someone trying to blackmail me or something in the beginning, then again I've had a few things happen in the past ? but I do wish you the best of luck in fulfilling your fantasies! I agree with just having a more open conversation about it before actions, never know how people will react when comparing fantasy to reality. (the amount of people I've met that say they'd roleplay dog things, but never do it irl..)
 
shadow5473 said:
I give you props for being so forward early on in a relationship lol. I'd be so terrified of someone trying to blackmail me or something in the beginning, then again I've had a few things happen in the past ? but I do wish you the best of luck in fulfilling your fantasies! I agree with just having a more open conversation about it before actions, never know how people will react when comparing fantasy to reality. (the amount of people I've met that say they'd roleplay dog things, but never do it irl..)
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It's funny cause he brought it up! We were talking about something else and he mentioned dogs knotting, then we looked at doggy dildos together because he wanted to get one for me. Have to admit I wanted to ask why we couldn't use the real thing instead! Lol

But yes, normally, this would be something I'd never talk about right away! Even still he only knows I've read erotica and have seen some doggy porn. It's still *fantasy* talk. I'm just getting mixed signals so I wanted to see how others would respond.
 
K91904 said:
It's funny cause he brought it up! We were talking about something else and he mentioned dogs knotting, then we looked at doggy dildos together because he wanted to get one for me. Have to admit I wanted to ask why we couldn't use the real thing instead! Lol

But yes, normally, this would be something I'd never talk about right away! Even still he only knows I've read erotica and have seen some doggy porn. It's still *fantasy* talk. I'm just getting mixed signals so I wanted to see how others would respond.
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YOU ARE GREEN FOR GO! You should have asked, I feel pretty damn confident you would be happy with the answer.
If you're opening up about it and looking for dog dildos together, he's trying to send you a sign that he's into it but too shy to bring it up. The tension is thrilling and I highly advise you, GO GET THAT DOGGY DICK!
 
420Fatty said:
YOU ARE GREEN FOR GO! You should have asked, I feel pretty damn confident you would be happy with the answer.
If you're opening up about it and looking for dog dildos together, he's trying to send you a sign that he's into it but too shy to bring it up. The tension is thrilling and I highly advise you, GO GET THAT DOGGY DICK!
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I think he's still a yellow. Maybe he's being cautious as well but he showed no signs of excitement when the pup was beside me on the bed. I made a few innocent comments about liking having the pup in bed with us and nothing.

There's also the fact that the pup was only interested in getting cuddled.... lol... if he'd sniffed around or licked my body or shown any interest it would have helped start the conversation.
 
K91904 said:
I think he's still a yellow. Maybe he's being cautious as well but he showed no signs of excitement when the pup was beside me on the bed. I made a few innocent comments about liking having the pup in bed with us and nothing.

There's also the fact that the pup was only interested in getting cuddled.... lol... if he'd sniffed around or licked my body or shown any interest it would have helped start the conversation.
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I see. Still, Don't give up.
 
From a guy’s perspective, you’ve already explained to him your desires and fantasies. Your BF has a 6 year old Bulldog and can’t seem to connect the dots?? He’s either thinking about it and trying to cope, is not in to it at all and hoping it goes away, or he’s really, really not very bright.
 
K91904 said:
It's funny cause he brought it up! We were talking about something else and he mentioned dogs knotting, then we looked at doggy dildos together because he wanted to get one for me. Have to admit I wanted to ask why we couldn't use the real thing instead! Lol

But yes, normally, this would be something I'd never talk about right away! Even still he only knows I've read erotica and have seen some doggy porn. It's still *fantasy* talk. I'm just getting mixed signals so I wanted to see how others would respond.
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Coming from a guys perspective here. If he’s the one that brought it up means he’s thought about it more than one time. And the fact that he knows that you read erotica and watch movies might have opened his eyes a little more. Believe me if I had a girl that was into this that I would be all for it. He may be just testing the waters also just to see what you will do. Either that or he is waiting for you to make the first move because he is unsure that you would go through with it. But to me it sounds like y’all are both being cautious. Going to have to break the water somehow.Good luck and I hope it does work out for you. Please keep us posted
 
K9sully said:
Additionally, in the “life is so unfair” column, girls into this can have practically ANY guy they choose. Guy’s (like me who have no pets), get to pump one hand while holding their cell phone with the other!! ?
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Hah... that is not as true as you think! It's very difficult to find real and true active owners. There always seems to be some sort of catch.

In this last year of looking I've only had one encounter ??‍♀️
 
K91904 said:
Hah... that is not as true as you think! It's very difficult to find real and true active owners. There always seems to be some sort of catch.

In this last year of looking I've only had one encounter ??‍♀️
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Maybe my perspective is skewed because of the length of time I have in this (almost 50 years.) To me, the guy-girl ratio is about 500:1.
 
Well you are there 100 percent there he knows you like dogs so just tell him all he's gonna say no or yes.
 
Why not just come out and tell him you really want to know what it feels like. Either he will say yes or no. I wouldn't write a letter or text....if you break up later, he could hold it over your head. If he can't help fulfill your needs and desires....is he really the guy for you in the long run... is your desires going to go away? Or will you possibly cheat on him due to it...
 
Timslim2020 said:
Why not just come out and tell him you really want to know what it feels like. Either he will say yes or no. I wouldn't write a letter or text....if you break up later, he could hold it over your head. If he can't help fulfill your needs and desires....is he really the guy for you in the long run... is your desires going to go away? Or will you possibly cheat on him due to it...
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We're supposed to get together this weekend. I'll see if I can summon the courage.

But yeah, it's an in person conversation. That's for sure.

As for long term, it's new. I likely could keep this to fantasy and porn if I had to. I mean the pool of men wanting to be in a relationship is already small. Ones who want to commit AND share this particular lifestyle seems microscopic ??‍♀️
 
Timslim2020 said:
Why not just come out and tell him you really want to know what it feels like. Either he will say yes or no. I wouldn't write a letter or text....if you break up later, he could hold it over your head. If he can't help fulfill your needs and desires....is he really the guy for you in the long run... is your desires going to go away? Or will you possibly cheat on him due to it...
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Also, I can't guarantee I won't be feeling up his dog if we're ever left alone unless it's expressly forbidden by him ?
 
It also may not be a bad idea to maybe start off with something like getting licked or having your boobs licked! You could even have it take place by “accident” if the dog happens to be in the room while you guys are getting sexual. If I was a guy thinking about this with my gf, I may be hesitant at first if you were just like “can your dog fuck me or what” but if the gf was like “babe omg look this feels so good” and I saw my dog eating her out I would be like okay dogs lick all the time it just happens to be down there. I then would see how good it makes her feel and probably let it continue or ask to try it myself. And then from there if all goes well you could go for the fuck!
 
Murphy97 said:
It also may not be a bad idea to maybe start off with something like getting licked or having your boobs licked! You could even have it take place by “accident” if the dog happens to be in the room while you guys are getting sexual. If I was a guy thinking about this with my gf, I may be hesitant at first if you were just like “can your dog fuck me or what” but if the gf was like “babe omg look this feels so good” and I saw my dog eating her out I would be like okay dogs lick all the time it just happens to be down there. I then would see how good it makes her feel and probably let it continue or ask to try it myself. And then from there if all goes well you could go for the fuck!
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I was just joking with someone about rubbing bacon grease on my tits before I get there to get the pup licking my body ?

But yeah, I'd be in heaven even if I got some licks.... mmmm...
 
K91904 said:
We're supposed to get together this weekend. I'll see if I can summon the courage.

But yeah, it's an in person conversation. That's for sure.

As for long term, it's new. I likely could keep this to fantasy and porn if I had to. I mean the pool of men wanting to be in a relationship is already small. Ones who want to commit AND share this particular lifestyle seems microscopic ??‍♀️
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Don't sell yourself short. I'm sure there is plenty of guys that would love to be with you.
 
Timslim2020 said:
Don't sell yourself short. I'm sure there is plenty of guys that would love to be with you.
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Oh there's nothing wrong with ME, it's the men that have the issues ?

All joking aside, perhaps it's regional, I've noticed that men in my area have no real drive to settle down or commit. No shade. It is what it is!
 
Im a bit late to this but heres hoping things are going well for you, If you haven't yet broken the ice on this with your partner I would say you should. From what I've read here he's given some pretty good hints of his interest and if he already know you watch zoo content and didnt run and isnt avoiding the subject then I'd say those are all good signs. Obviously everyone is different but at this point it sounds like a green light to me.
 
K91904 said:
We're supposed to get together this weekend. I'll see if I can summon the courage.

But yeah, it's an in person conversation. That's for sure.

As for long term, it's new. I likely could keep this to fantasy and porn if I had to. I mean the pool of men wanting to be in a relationship is already small. Ones who want to commit AND share this particular lifestyle seems microscopic ??‍♀️
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Having enjoyed zoo relationships in the past with some wonderful women, I unfortunately think that last part is true from what they told me.
Most guys just want to watch and get off from the woman being the participant. My first zoo girlfriend, when she told me she was zoo, said I could stay and participate or I could leave, she didn't need an observer.
I stayed and enjoyed every minute of it, which is when I discovered that I have a very strong sexual attraction to male dogs, and had been suppressing it since my first encounter at age 11. But I may be an outlier, as most men would generally see having sex with a male dog and their girlfriend as being less of a man or OH MY GOSH, gay - stereotypes are hard to overcome.
Well I happen to love women and I also love male dogs. So that would make me Human Heterosexual and Dog Gay. Whatever !
 
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