Advice needed from anyone part of a couple

[Zoofantasy]

I am a 56yo, married, heterosexual male that stumbled into Zoo several years ago. I have zero experience but have developed a very keen interest in the lifestyle. I am very, very turned on by dog porn and would love to take the next step (watch or participate) alone or with my wife. We have been married about five years and our sex lives are very vanilla and boring. She has never hinted at an interest in any kinks but we are both dog lovers and sharing these experiences would be a dream come true. That said, I am just stymied how I could bring this idea up in conversation without blowing up my marriage because once the genie is out of the bottle…. Honestly, it’s more important to me to keep my marriage and have Zoo be only a fantasy because, as we all know, most people are utterly repulsed at the suggestion of any sexual contact with animals. Any advice?

 

[nekdoneco123]

noone can answer how worth it is the risk to you.

 

[purplepenguinonion]

It sounds like you may want to start out with bringing up some more "socially acceptable" kinks and seeing how she responds. I feel like some light bondage could be pretty accessible and would give you an idea of if she's willing to (or even excited to) explore more.

Does she use a vibrator or dildo regularly? A knotted one could be passed off as something new and scandalous, and could get the juices flowing, so to speak.

 

[Zoofantasy]

Great idea. I know she had a dildo before we married. I would love to somehow hint at the idea peripherally so that I can test the waters, but what to say?

 

[KuriousK_9Kouple]

Tell her you would like to add a toy to your playtime in the bedroom and ask her if she would like to online shop for a dildo and then go to an online shop like The Dildo Hub and see how she reacts to the the variety offered.

 

[shortleash]

good luck you might start by sharing a fantasy and emphasizing that it is only a fantasy...

 

[mxdwxnders]

I am a 56yo, married, heterosexual male that stumbled into Zoo several years ago. I have zero experience but have developed a very keen interest in the lifestyle. I am very, very turned on by dog porn and would love to take the next step (watch or participate) alone or with my wife. We have been married about five years and our sex lives are very vanilla and boring. She has never hinted at an interest in any kinks but we are both dog lovers and sharing these experiences would be a dream come true. That said, I am just stymied how I could bring this idea up in conversation without blowing up my marriage because once the genie is out of the bottle…. Honestly, it’s more important to me to keep my marriage and have Zoo be only a fantasy because, as we all know, most people are utterly repulsed at the suggestion of any sexual contact with animals. Any advice?

Strangers on a forum can not help you - Just be honest with her and tell her about it

 

[Booty&TheBeast]

I also vote for a dildo with a knot. Something flesh colored, not a simulated dog one. Keeps it mainstream but cracks the door.

 

[letmeaddyou101]

Great idea. I know she had a dildo before we married. I would love to somehow hint at the idea peripherally so that I can test the waters, but what to say?

Any update?