23M, owner of a male GSD and VERY new to zoo, looking for advice

[ilovemyGSD]

As I said above, I'm 23, male and own a GSD who I love more than anything. He is around one year old, and I was mistaken thinking he was fully sexually mature because my mom said that he could start breeding and took her at her word like an idiot. I just masturbated him to completion after a failed mounting attempt and after a little while he started to whine and cry. I love him more than anything and of course stopped as soon as the whimpering started and have stayed by his side as he relaxes and I'm typing still beside him. Did I hurt him? Will this destroy the trust of our relationship? If so is it fixable? I feel so guilty and just wish I could let him know I'm sorry.

 

[FlooferDoof]

The obvious advice is to seek a vet's attention. You can tell them that he started whining after humping a pillow or something, and you're just concerned that he might have hurt himself.

Are you noticing any obvious symptoms aside from the whimpering?

 

[dndn]

You mentioned masturbating him: their sensitive penis/knot skin can dry, and make him uncomfortable.
It can also make retracting into his sheath painful, or at least weird enough that he may become distressed (for example if his dry penis catches onto the sheath fur/skin).
Some dogs are wetter by default, some will lick themselves, but it depends on the individual it seems.
If your dog looks uncomfortable, or continues licking his sheath long after this happened, consider seeing a vet as suggested above.

On the relationship bit, it also depends on the individual, but it’s unlikely that you’d break your bond with your companion with a single instance of them getting hurt: they usually don’t start hating you and not wanting you around if you step on a paw by mistake (that can be painful). If you’re loving and petting them after, they can understand apologies (as social animals, dogs also have body language for apologizing/acknowledging they overstepped boundaries).
If you are a good companion to them in general, they will have a strong bond with you that won’t be broken by random mishaps (again, depends on the individual, shelter dogs may have mental stress/PTSD due to their past, there are many facets contributing to that).

 

[nekdoneco123]

you did hurt him if you stroked him along the shaft.

 

[pes]

How to masturbate and orally please a male dog: A guide to oral sex.

Oral sex it more or less about masturbating a male dog with the added benefit that in the end you do the masturbation with your mouth. So lets begin with how to masturbate a dog. Castration/neutering: The purpose of castration is the removal of sexual behavior. "Another benefit of castration is...

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[ilovemyGSD]

How to masturbate and orally please a male dog: A guide to oral sex.

Oral sex it more or less about masturbating a male dog with the added benefit that in the end you do the masturbation with your mouth. So lets begin with how to masturbate a dog. Castration/neutering: The purpose of castration is the removal of sexual behavior. "Another benefit of castration is...

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I had read this beforehand thankfully so I didn't stroke him like I would stroke mine. The entire time was me holding the base of his knot. I can upload some of the footage that I made but not all, as it did show my face later on.

I also have some good news! I was worried, but when he woke up after a little nap, he was happier than I've ever seen him, really thankful it seemed too. Kept licking my face. Next time, I think I want to jack myself while I'm milking him. I didn't orgasm until I rewatched the footage. I think I'm gonna upload an edited version of my footage without the parts in my face momentarily

 

[Okami]

Was he actually crying in pain or more of just a whine? A lot of males get a little freaked out when it’s their first time, walking around and whining. It’s a whole new weird experience after all. Seen it many times. If it was that, nothing to really worry about.
But if he’s yelping in pain, is visibly stressed, that may or not be something for concern. Could be a lack of lube, hairs getting stuck in the sheath, or just freaking out after his first time. I’ve known a few males that yelp in pain whenever their knot deflates no matter what. Vets said no concern, just how it is for them unfortunately. They still enjoyed breeding and sex.

Feel free to pm me if you have any questions. Im a gsd breeder and trainer

 

[ilovemyGSD]

Was he actually crying in pain or more of just a whine? A lot of males get a little freaked out when it’s their first time, walking around and whining. It’s a whole new weird experience after all. Seen it many times. If it was that, nothing to really worry about.
But if he’s yelping in pain, is visibly stressed, that may or not be something for concern. Could be a lack of lube, hairs getting stuck in the sheath, or just freaking out after his first time. I’ve known a few males that yelp in pain whenever their knot deflates no matter what. Vets said no concern, just how it is for them unfortunately. They still enjoyed breeding and sex.

Feel free to pm me if you have any questions. Im a gsd breeder and trainer

Thank you so much for your reply! It was a few whimpers at first but he did yelp once or twice. I think it may have been overstimulation, maybe. I was kinda squeezing too fast. I am not able to message yet, but with how much posts I'm making ill be able to in no time no doubt, and when I am able to message I will for sure message you. It will be greatly appreciated!

 

[ilovemyGSD]

Was he actually crying in pain or more of just a whine? A lot of males get a little freaked out when it’s their first time, walking around and whining. It’s a whole new weird experience after all. Seen it many times. If it was that, nothing to really worry about.
But if he’s yelping in pain, is visibly stressed, that may or not be something for concern. Could be a lack of lube, hairs getting stuck in the sheath, or just freaking out after his first time. I’ve known a few males that yelp in pain whenever their knot deflates no matter what. Vets said no concern, just how it is for them unfortunately. They still enjoyed breeding and sex.

Feel free to pm me if you have any questions. Im a gsd breeder and trainer

I have an answer. I was jacking him off again just now and he did it again, right before deflation. Should i lube his penis next time? Maybe wash his penis? I don't wanna see my best buddy in pain.

 

[Okami]

I have an answer. I was jacking him off again just now and he did it again, right before deflation. Should i lube his penis next time? Maybe wash his penis? I don't wanna see my best buddy in pain.

One of my males used to be like this. Could be age, could be the way his sheath is. He’ll most likely grow out of it. I would wait a few weeks before doing anything sexual with him.

Also side note, I don’t know what your goals are sexually with him, but if you want him to eventually mount and top/knot you, don’t jerk him off too much. It’s a very likely possibility that he will rely on that going forward and lose his desire to mount. I can go into more detail when you can PM. If you telegram we can chat there too.

 

[baconbaconpancakes]

Don't wash his penis. You can try wiping it with a wet paper towel if you see large debris like shed hairs. You can also shave the hairs on the tip of the sheath if it looks like they are touching the penis on retraction. Lube dries out and gums up so if you use it then I suggest applying it closer to the time that he will start deflating. Use water based veterinarian lube like OB lube or j-lube after mixing.

Most likely he will stop yelping and start licking himself as he gets more experience. Lube can make the learning process easier for him if used properly.

 

[ilovemyGSD]

One of my males used to be like this. Could be age, could be the way his sheath is. He’ll most likely grow out of it. I would wait a few weeks before doing anything sexual with him.

Also side note, I don’t know what your goals are sexually with him, but if you want him to eventually mount and top/knot you, don’t jerk him off too much. It’s a very likely possibility that he will rely on that going forward and lose his desire to mount. I can go into more detail when you can PM. If you telegram we can chat there too.

Good to know! I look forward to chatting with you, then! I do got a telegram, but I don't think I'm allowed to give it outside the on-site chat so I'm gonna have to post to prove I'm no anti or something.

But yeah, I'm interested in him mounting, mating and knotting me. He's pretty good at mounting, but he is a little clumsy. Probably his age. Or maybe I'm just not analyzing trained enough to take the knot when it's already swollen, or my hole is too loose to keep his early-mount knot inside, who knows.